I've decided to have a bracelet of honeysuckle tattooed around my right wrist. Honeysuckle was Rupes' favourite flower. I do already have a few commemorative tattoos for him - a raven on my right arm (because people used to believe that 'gorbies' were the spirits of the dead; it holds a heart, to show that my love is still with him) and a broken heart over my heart, but this would be a bit more specific to him. The tattoos do definitely help me, however much other people tell me it's a bad idea.